3 Weeks

As of yesterday Anika has been with us for 3 weeks and home for 2 weeks and 2 days. It is hard to believe that it has only been 3 weeks since the elevator doors opened on the third floor of the Marriott and there she was smiling in her foster mother's arms. It all seemed so surreal as we met with her foster family in the baby lounge asking all the questions we could possibly think of in a moment as monumental as that. It was a good thing we had been emailing back and forth in the weeks leading up to our trip and had most of the information we needed ahead of time because I was just in awe of Anika and in shock that this was really happening. After we said our goodbye's to her foster family we stayed in the lounge for a few minutes to collect our selves and then headed to the room. We were shocked at how little Anika grieved for her foster family in the days right after we met her. It was in direct contrast to Alex who although was much younger at 4 1/2 months was so very sad during our time in Guatemala. In fact Anika seemed not to be phased at all for the first week or so even when we returned home. We were beginning frankly to worry about her lack of grieving. Well I am happy to say that while it is so so hard to watch, Anika is now finally showing some signs of sadness. I am happy because this means she is now dealing with the huge change she has been through and starting to attach to us emotionally. She has started to wake up at night and sometimes after naps crying for "MAMA" and when she see's me is very very angry and distraught. It is not me that she is looking for but her foster Mother. She woke from a nap after Alex got home one day last week and Alex was so upset. "Why is she afraid of us Mommy?" Ok that about killed me. I tried to explain it and he ran and got a picture of Anika's foster Mom. My sweet sweet boy!!!! I have been working with Anika during the day and we are seeing good progress in her attachment. She woke up from 3 naps today SMILING!!!!!!!! :) So I wanted to post this since I know that there are waiting families that read my blog and I wanted to be truthful about our whole experience. Anika is really doing well considering that she was taken from the only family she had ever known 3 weeks ago at the age of 9 months. I am so thankful that we are so privileged to be her forever family! We love you Anika and we will never leave you. I know you don't believe that now but you will. Just ask your big brother! Love to you. Mommy,Daddy and Alex

First Haircut

With Alex as the official photographer we set off to get Anika's first haircut today. It was so much fun. She loved the animals on the cape and Alex did a great job taking pictures and even a few movie clips.



Anika's new look...

New Pictures

Ok everyone has one guess who she is looking at in the first picture! :) I found her shirt in the last picture at Old Navy. Perfect!! I got a few sizes so she is going to wear this one for a while. :)
Tracy

They really do LOVE each other....

These are from Valentine's Day and just melt my heart. I really didn't get how neat it was going to be to see my two love each other. It still amazes me.

Standing is so much fun......

Anika loves to stand! She was so excited when she stood holding onto the dinning room chair today! With Alex as her biggest cheerleader she did this for a good part of the evening. She wants to chase after him so badly and at this rate it won't be to long before she can. OH MY! This is how her hair looks when her ponytail and or clips have come out so many times we don't have the heart to redo them again since she HATES HATES it when we fix her hair. Have a great Monday!

18 Months

This is Alex in August of 2006. This is one of many pictures we took looking for a neat way to announce that we were adopting again and he was going to have a little sister. On Friday shortly after we got home from visitng his kindergarten class I decided to find this shirt. The 2nd picture is Anika finally home and wearing the first piece of clothing I ever bought for her. THANKFUL.....









Our visit to school was so special. I know that I won't ever forget taking Anika there and the look on Alex's face and how excited he was. A special thanks to Alex's teacher for making it such a special time for us both. The kids sang "Love Grows" to us. It was a moment to cherish.

Another Adoption ????????

I made blank copies of all our paperwork that we needed to take to the Embassy, just in case we had made a mistake and needed to redo something. When we got home the blank copies were still with our paperwork so when I unpacked I put it in Alex's pile of scrap paper for drawing, writing etc...Thinking of course that he would use the blank side. Fast forward to tonight shortly before dinner.. I found Alex on the floor of the dinning room very carefully writing P A N D A in the fist blank of one of the forms. When I told him it was time for dinner he says ...." I have lots of papers to fill out. Panda wants to go to Australia to adopt a dingo. " I stood for a second and then gave him a big hug. I told him that he could finish his adoption paperwork after dinner and he says " Good there is so much to be done just so much to be done. " He was home from school the 4 days before we left for Guatemala because of sickness and snow days so he was witness to my "so much to be done" frenzy.